The appropriateness of continuing this discussion on-list is a bit dubious, but I'll address your post on-list since your comment was on-list. We should probably continue the discussion off-list.
In terms of civility, I perceived Mr. Auslander to be badgering Penny Ballou with his daily "complete waste of time" message. I know Penny to be a valuable contributor in this and other forums. At least once in this thread, he was rather rude and insulting to Penny.
In addition, I count no less than 5 posts by Mr. Auslander in this thread alone that getting a patent can be a complete waste of time and money. How many times should that be posted in a single thread? I would argue less than once on average, because many questions in this forum have nothing to do with the decision to get a patent. If the question does pertain to whether to get a patent, I think raising the point once is enough, unless it generates follow-up questions/discussion. I believe that the lack of follow-up questions/discussion suggests that people here "get it."
We all have a pet points vis-a-vis patents. I have mine and I call that article "The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Patents." And, for the record, it has nothing to do with "complete waste of time and money". But I don't work it into every single post of mine.
I don't wish to be unkind, but due to the similarity of Mr. Auslander's posts, I believe that the full benefit of his contribution to this forum can be achieved by reading 3 or 4 of his posts and ignoring the rest. I believe he is certainly capable of contributing more, but for whatever reason he seems to chose not to. And, I don't feel the same way about his posts in the trademark and copyright forums.
Lastly, repeating one's favorite post in case newbies might be lurking about is generally considered inappropriate behavior in an on-line forum (a violation of "netiquette"). That's why FAQs exist -- to avoid redundancy and to promote free flow of current and relevant information free from traffic of old, redundant ideas.
In summary, I was reacting to what I perceived to be incivility to Penny. My intent was to uphold the value of this forum. If I inadvertantly detracted from the value of this forum, I apologize.
Regards.