What am I missing?
Reading the claims in light of the specification means looking to the specification to understand how the applicant uses words in the claims.
Reading limitations from the spec into the claims means using the spec to add words to the claims that really aren't there.
I'll give my own example from a patent I reviewed many years ago. The invention pertained to integrated circuit contact pad and dispersing high voltage that might be applied to the IC by static electricity in a person's fingertips. The claim recited aspects of the contact pad in terms of length and width and such.
The examiner interpreted the length to be the longer dimension of the pad and the width to be the shorter dimension. However, it was clear from the spec (and the convention in the art) that the length was always measured along the path of electricity flow and width always measure across that path. So, the examiner had misinterpreted "width" and "length" -- in the case of the patent in question, the width was several times the length. The examiner failed to read the claims "in light of" the specification to understand which dimension is "length" and which is "width".
Now, I'll extrapolate to give an example of impermissible reading of spec limitations into the claims. Suppose the spec states that particularly good results are achieved of the width is at least four times the length, but that the claim in question includes no such limitation. It would be impermissible for the examiner to interpret the claim as requiring that the width be at least four times the length of the contact pad.
The bottom line comes down to interpreting intend of the applicant (and how skilled artisans would read it). An attempt to define a term should be distinguished from illustrative examples.
Regards.