I say you're entitled to equivalents permitted by law regardless of of whether you ask for them in the spec.
Yes. And, conversely, you're not entitled to equivalents beyond those permitted by law regardless of whether you ask for them in the spec.
In short, you cannot change the law in your favor in the spec.
Aren't you trying to have it both ways? You're defining a term and then saying "hey, wait, that's not the only meaning, I also want plain meaning to a POSITA."
Yeah, application drafters often forget that clarity is essential and try to get a bit nifty, shooting themselves in the foot from time to time. It's generally good not to define a single term in multiple ways. People (particularly judges and jurors) should not scratch their heads in confusion whenever they read that term.
I'd say that you should either not define the term at all if it's to be determined by ordinary artisans or defined once and clearly otherwise. As there is often disagreement among ordinary artisans with respect to some terms, you should define any term that is of fundamental importance to the application.
Stylistically, I'm not fond of "without limitation", though I have used it. This is more like my style: "As used herein, a 'fastener' is .... [definition]. In this illustrative embodiment, fastener 102 is a screw. It should be appreciated that fastener 102 can be other types of fasteners such as ...., for example."
Regards.
P.S. Somewhere in here, years ago, I wrote up a mock spec disclaimer, something about "the broadest range of equivalence allowed by law or statute ever or in the future ...". Can't find it. It was a parody of the stuff I see in applications from time to time. Would have been apropos.