No, drawings do not need to be to scale, though it's good to point out that they aren't in the specification if it would otherwise be misleading or confusing.
You only need to draw the parts of the components that are necessary to explain the invention.
So, let's take the example of a water canon mounted on a semi-truck's trailer. Let's assume that the trailer and the water canon are conventional (not new) except in the way the canon is mounted on the trailer.
Do you need to draw the truck that pulls the trailer? Probably not. Sounds like any semi-truck will suffice.
Do you need to draw the trailer? At least part of it. You can probably get by with a crummy hand sketch on a napkin (and scanned, of course) of most of the trailer, except for the parts that are new -- e.g., for mounting the water canon. I often use clip art for this sort of thing -- e.g., a cell phone talking to a computer through a network: I use clip art for the cell phone, the network (usually shown as a cloud), and the computer.
Do you need to draw the water canon? Same. At least part of it. If the water canon is conventional aside from its mount, you can do another crummy napkin drawing and scan it.
Now, for the mount, you don't need to produce CAD drawings sufficient to have all the parts milled. All that's needed is to explain, in great detail, how the mount works and how to make one. There's going to be a written narrative along with the drawings, making the drawings more like illustrations. Most CAD drawings I've seen are big-time over-kill for patent drawings. You won't need to show every nut and bolt and specific dimensions and thread spacing. All of that is what we call "routine engineering" and not needed (often) in a patent specification.
And, referring back to my earlier comment, I would never just describe my idea and ask a CAD engineer to draw me some patent drawings. As the person writing the application, I would insist on directing the drawing -- specifying exactly what I need to show and from what perspective. The person writing the application should know what you need to show in your drawings and to what quality they should be. If you're not that person, you should not produce the drawings without first getting explicit details from that person.
It sounds as if the person who knows how to write the patent application is missing in your scenario. If the client were a patent practitioner or at least someone with patent writing experience, they wouldn't ask a CAD designer to figure out what drawings would go in a patent. In nearly all situations, the CAD designer -- if one is needed for a patent application -- is sub-contracted by the patent practitioner.
Lastly, all patents in the US are available for download for free. The simplest way is to use Google Patents and click the "Save PDF" button (or one like that). So, you shouldn't have to buy any patents to look at examples.
Regards.